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Re: Taking a step back

Posted: 20 Feb 2016 12:57
by Arman
Amberlee wrote:
Arman wrote:
Amberlee wrote:
I disagree.
It's a place for people to vent a bit.
People here are adults and should be able to handle it without it having any effect on them.
I don't see any value of them on the official forums. Go vent somewhere else. It isn't constructive, and adds nothing to enhancing the game experience.

You dont see the value.
Many of us do.
So enlighten. How is the flame section of any value to Genesis or experiencing the game?

Why should the official forums support what is essentially trolling and abuse?

Re: Taking a step back

Posted: 20 Feb 2016 13:31
by Cherek
Lets have a vote to get an idea what people think about flames:

https://www.genesismud.org/forums/viewt ... 422#p31422

Re: Taking a step back

Posted: 20 Feb 2016 20:10
by Mystina
I want to apologizes for my behavior as well, i'm unintentionally bringing my real life stresses to the forum.

All i wanted to do was be an active member, play, give suggestions, as questions.


It did feel i was needlessly ragged on fir my suggestions. I am still trying to cope with my aspergers as there is lil to no realistic info on it, or stuff people can do to ease the issues.

(I'm not making an excuse just trying to explain how this affected my behavior)

I have high anxiety, and poor communication skills, i get insulted daily for them with in my family and home. I take pills but when i run out no one in my family can take time to bring me to get them (i don't nor can i drive, my coordination is poor and too much of liability behind the wheel)

I play games as an escape, mostly online games to help with my communication skills. A lot of the time it back fires due to misunderstandings, or how i present myself. Which isn't as easy to do, and something people take for granted.

Anyway, just wanted to apologies and explain myself so in future, people can take a step back instead of assuming the worst of my intent (which causes me to get anxiety and lash out due to being misinterpreted)

A player new or old shouldn't feel like they can't speak, or can't have an opinion.

Think better approach is stop treating new players like children, some people might he new to the game and genre/style.

Some people might have play other games, and just new to a game.


I just wanted to put this out there, i did respect a avatar, what i didn't like was his crass replies to suggestions i've made. And it blew put of proportion. Which i fully accept my part in it and regret stuff i said.

Anyway, lets all move forward, and try to learn from this. I'll try to work on how i post, all i ask is to just Gimi a chance.

I'm a very nice person if i'm able to play in a relaxed environment. Again all i ask is to be given a chance.

Layers. <3

Re: Taking a step back

Posted: 21 Feb 2016 03:53
by Amberlee
Well Arman.

Because its not?
Also its its own section.
You dont HAVE to open it and read the posts.
You can choose to NOT open the threads there.

Re: Taking a step back

Posted: 21 Feb 2016 05:02
by Avatar
Amberlee wrote:Well Arman.

Because its not?
Also its its own section.
You dont HAVE to open it and read the posts.
You can choose to NOT open the threads there.
WHy do you HAVE to have a place where you can act like a retarded moron in the first place?

Re: Taking a step back

Posted: 21 Feb 2016 05:13
by Mystina
Avatar wrote:
Amberlee wrote:Well Arman.

Because its not?
Also its its own section.
You dont HAVE to open it and read the posts.
You can choose to NOT open the threads there.
WHy do you HAVE to have a place where you can act like a retarded moron in the first place?
If there was a like button

It would be pressed

OVER9000 Sry couldn't resist...


Anyway


8-) 8-) 8-)
There we get smiles as likes

Re: Taking a step back

Posted: 21 Feb 2016 05:21
by Ody
Simply because it's the flame section doesn't mean it's a chaotic uncivilized wasteland where people think anything goes. It's a place where people go to vent and discuss their feelings. Let it remain. It works. The argument that it's doesn't promote the game and makes it look bad is unfounded. Even stuff outside the flame section devolves into shit throwing.

Re: Taking a step back

Posted: 21 Feb 2016 05:43
by Mystina
Ody wrote:Simply because it's the flame section doesn't mean it's a chaotic uncivilized wasteland where people think anything goes. It's a place where people go to vent and discuss their feelings. Let it remain. It works. The argument that it's doesn't promote the game and makes it look bad is unfounded. Even stuff outside the flame section devolves into shit throwing.

Ya but you gotta admit people take that venting too seriously and bring it out of the flame thread section..


He'll i was harassed in messaged over some.....


Think it needs to go if people are gonna do that.

Re: Taking a step back

Posted: 21 Feb 2016 05:53
by Ody
Mystina wrote:
Ody wrote:Simply because it's the flame section doesn't mean it's a chaotic uncivilized wasteland where people think anything goes. It's a place where people go to vent and discuss their feelings. Let it remain. It works. The argument that it's doesn't promote the game and makes it look bad is unfounded. Even stuff outside the flame section devolves into shit throwing.

Ya but you gotta admit people take that venting too seriously and bring it out of the flame thread section..


He'll i was harassed in messaged over some.....


Think it needs to go if people are gonna do that.
Because some people abuse it it needs to go? That doesn't constitute banning something or getting rid of it. Ban the people with no self control and let the rest stay. It's quite simple.

Re: Taking a step back

Posted: 21 Feb 2016 07:22
by Mystina
Ody wrote:
Mystina wrote:
Ody wrote:Simply because it's the flame section doesn't mean it's a chaotic uncivilized wasteland where people think anything goes. It's a place where people go to vent and discuss their feelings. Let it remain. It works. The argument that it's doesn't promote the game and makes it look bad is unfounded. Even stuff outside the flame section devolves into shit throwing.

Ya but you gotta admit people take that venting too seriously and bring it out of the flame thread section..


He'll i was harassed in messaged over some.....


Think it needs to go if people are gonna do that.
Because some people abuse it it needs to go? That doesn't constitute banning something or getting rid of it. Ban the people with no self control and let the rest stay. It's quite simple.

Some is more then enough, it shouldn't happen at all. And it isn't as smile as you make it sound.

I was perms ban from the ff14 forums for supposed slander, yet outside 1 outburst put of self defense i never slandered anyone.

First post that was reported i asked "did a poster just read the thread title bad posted?" second posted was " the Na community bothers me as some people are rude"


Banning people is a pure judgment call and it is up to the discretion of the powers that be to carry it out.

Banning people over opinions isn't the right way to go about it. As i stated there are other platforms fir venting, why not use that?