Draugor wrote:
talk to three people about the same thing and you're bound to get three answers.
Yes, and that's a good thing

The important thing here is obviously to realzie the need to talk to all three and not just one of them, in order to get more information and different perspectives on issues. But it seems to me that the current wizzes are smart enough to do that.
Draugor wrote:
I understand that you dont have that much time, so create some alt and just play for a few hours a couple of days a week and actually really try the shit out thats been created so you can get in touch with the game again, making stuff for something you no longer dont know anything about sounds kinda F***** up
I actually think that he might in some ways have a
better perspective for not being in the middle of it. Perhaps in some ways worse too, but I'd say it evens out. The important thing, in my opinion, is that the wizards listen a lot and talk to the players.